2 Stirs and a Dome Lid….
December 1, 2009I have a theory about men which has many proven experiements and facts, men just can never find things. If you tell a guy, go get the red coat in the bedroom before he even proceeds to lift his foot off the ground and carry it as to do what we call walking, he first asks ” Where is it”? and you say the bedroom. He then does walk over and stands at the doorway and a lazy attempt to look for something is eyeballing the room from right to left then he will ask again. Well at least that is how it is over here and every time it is the same thing, sometimes you just go over and it is right there and he can never find it. So we ladies must be very exact with our instructions, an example, do not say please go get my purse for me. You must say please go get my purple and white purse which is in top right dresser in our bedroom and if it is inside a closet you must address exact coordinates. We women, love details and men do not seem to care to notice the small thinks. I always think my husband doe snot listen or does not notice. Any one out there can relate? til one day oh maybe a year ago or a bit more, he surprised me with coffee and it had 2 red stirs and a dome lid as I usually would get it at our local Wawa (which is not very normal to drink your coffee using your stir as a straw) I stopped for a minute and thought OMG, you actually noticed and remembered? I heard fireworks and I think I saw them at least in my head and l fell in love all over again that day. lol because learning each others likes and needs takes time and experience and I felt that he had grown, that we had grown. This birthday way weekend he did so much repairing around the house and little surprises, he served me and I am so thankful to him. As my husband and I are so differant, think of Brazilian Cowboy meets Brazilian Urban Beach girl and you get a sneak peak over here but he impressed me that day and I understood as we grow in our relationship how much of each-other we learn from, we see and notice and lately we have had some very bumpy roads where we felt very a lone and we both realized that we had each other, that WE are a TEAM, and we are a family and we must be there for each other at all times and be there for our children. It did not matter if there was not anyone else to lend us a hand, to care for us or even to pray for us but we have each other and each other is pretty awesome and as we grow our business together may we notice and learn from our clients because being a wedding photographer is about serving, about anticipating moments and needs and making it a whole lot of fun and giving people something to miss. I am very excited about 2010 as Max Productions and Feuza Reis Photography fully launches as a Husband and Wife team.
and for a new blog segment I will call Fuse News: I am so excited about Jill and Rich’s wedding being published in Bridal Crate Magazine! Woo hoo!!! love their quote about me!
Feuza Reis…A Fresh New Face In Photography! check it out here
Their online launch is today so check the out, send them some love, and follow them on Twitter.They are a brand new online and print magazine based out of NY City but catering to the world and they are bringing brides to be as well as vendors a crate full of great stuff, info, stories, inspirations, ideas, and much more and I am more than excited to be a part of their first issue! I am so humbled and still picking up my jaw from the floor and thankful to GOD because many might look and say who is this girl to be published anywhere and many do think that, maybe even some of you reading this right now, and that is okay, I am too excited to be upset or saddened by that because God is so awesome and I am just trusting on Him and believing in all He has got for me, and dreaming big, and working hard and failing and learning and taking baby steps, very little ones sometimes but believing. A big special thanks to my mentor David Toth who was the Cancun Wedding and coached so well during our Cancun weekend adventure and who took some preety out of this world shots and other half Max and my boys Lucas and Joshua who are always supportive for when mommy has to go away . And of course we need some pictures. Voila! Also do not forget to sign up to my Fuse News Newsletter under Contact me Section in my blog.


